Romantic dating gestures different
I recently had a gentleman I've dated about two months ask to take me shopping to "buy" me something.I told him absolutely not...type of thing makes ME very uncomfortable.I think it's depressing to read that "things" impart "value." This is pathetic.I don't want to be in her thoughts all time of the day. I value a sincere thank you when it is deserve.andal, its not about having to do these things .more about wanting to do these things because you love your partner.Kitten, are you sure all the other gals out there are on the exact same page as you are, or are you just extremely cheapre, lifeofleasure, ya im one of a kind.not like alot of women simply becuaes i know whats important and what isnt.
How can you say something so terribly mercenary and manipulating?
He holds me for hours as we shares thoughts and stories. If you love someone you wouln't think any different. Its the small things that we do that are important and will be remb.
He sends me an email or leaves a voice message to tell me he misses me and can't wait to see me again. These things take time and thought....listening and catering to my wants, needs and desires. I too agree with artigirl - it isn't about the giving - it's the value your partner places in the receiving.
Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc.
Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing...
He then told me about two women he had dated who were, within weeks, frequently asking him to take them shopping and buy things for them including jewelry, rings, etc. While that's not what makes me feel special, it obviously was what made these other two ladies feel that way.